This is an article that asks two questions. Do you presently, get what you want with the people who work for you and with you? Are you able to easily understand what they are asking or telling you and do you easily find ways to communicate your intentions and requirements to them? If you answered no to any of the three parts of these two questions then this article will have information of interest to you. Neuro Linguistic Programming or NLP as it is usually referred to is without doubt the most powerful communication model, to have emerged for use in management, during the last decade. It takes the elements of everyday behaviour patterns and makes them available to any serious student.