In sexology the existing questionnaires do not sufficiently consider the experiencing of sexuality and the extent of sexual satisfaction. That is why a questionnaire was developed which includes, besides the frequency and duration of sexual activities, the satisfaction with frequency and duration of these activities and the desired sexual behaviour. A first study with this questionnaire was carried out on 112 women with heterosexual behaviour, aged 20 to 48 years. The frequent desire with regard to coital orgasm as one result of our investigation confirms the centering of orgasm in other studies. But half of the women do not describe orgasm as the favoured feeling during sexual intercourse. For 37% of the women the emotional and physical closeness to the partner is explicitly more important than experiencing an orgasm. According to the comparison of extreme groups sexual satisfaction particularly correlates with self-determination realized in partnership and with satisfaction of communicational desires and need for tenderness within the partnership.