1 Elaine C. Meyer, PhD, RN, is senior attending psychologist at Boston Children's Hospital, faculty associate at the Center for Bioethics, and associate professor of psychology at Harvard Medical School. Contact the author through her website: www.elainecmeyer.com. Reflections is coordinated by Madeleine Mysko, MA, RN: mmysko@comcast.net. Illustration by Janet Hamlin.