The alcohol dependence of a family member redraws familiar relationships and creates a dysfunctional network. Therefore, the relationship between the individual and the family, the interactions and processes that occur must be examined during the therapy in order to understand the behavior of an alcoholic. The observations obtained in stu - dying the role of family members in the development and maintenance of pathological alcohol use disorders provide the scientific basis for this. Living in a family is realized by fulfilling role expectations related to the role based on the family status. In the case of discrepancy between the role expectation associated with the status and the individual's ability to fulfill the role, a dysfunctional situation is seen. In the present work, the relationships in the families of two alcohol de - pendent patients were analyzed. In both families, it was possible to identify the conspirator/looking away family member, who was either the spouse or the mother, sometimes both. The dysfunctional fathers were also recognized and there was a self-sacrificing family member in both families, who was the daughter in both cases. As the relatives themselves con - tribute to the survival of both alcohol dependence and the alcoholic game, efforts should be made to involve the family in therapy. Since the most important relationship of a married man is optimally his wife, the interaction between them is decisive for the survival of addiction. This led to the birth of the "wife of alcoholic" technical term. But this approach probably needs to change, as the male/female ratio for drinking began to decline as early as the 1980s. Thus, presumably the "partner of alcoholic" concept better describes today's reality. The involvement of family members in the therapy is necessary for the recovery of addict patient. However, there is a serious difficulty, the alienation of family members from the addict. In addition, the available services are often insufficient for recovery, as already pointed out by Hungarian authors. And further, statistics indicate a decrease in the patient retention capacity of the care system. Therefore, it would be important to rethink the role and possibilities of the addiction care network, and modify its financing.