Rethinking Regret: Reappraisal Tendencies Buffer Regret for ICU Surrogates Following Patient Death

West J Nurs Res. 2025 Sep;47(9):799-809. doi: 10.1177/01939459251344205. Epub 2025 Jun 16.

Abstract

Background: More than half of surrogate decision-makers experience regret after making decisions for a patient in the intensive care unit (ICU). This risk is enhanced following patient death yet may be buffered by their emotion regulation tendencies.

Objective: We investigated how a patient's survival outcome (alive/deceased) influenced their surrogate decision-maker's risk of developing decision regret and how their cognitive reappraisal tendencies for emotion regulation mitigate this risk.

Methods: Using data collected from a randomized controlled trial, we performed a secondary analysis of 158 surrogate decision-makers for incapacitated, mechanically ventilated adults within 4 ICUs at a tertiary medical center. We measured cognitive reappraisal tendency at study enrollment and decision regret 90 days post-enrollment. Adjusting for individual and process-related factors, we used logistic regression to examine the association between a patient's survival outcome and their risk of experiencing decision regret and the moderating role of cognitive reappraisal tendency on this relationship.

Results: Fifty percent of surrogate decision-makers reported decision regret. Surrogates of deceased patients had 5.7 times greater odds of regret than those of survivors. Among these surrogates, a 1 standard deviation increase in their cognitive reappraisal tendency was associated with a 4-fold reduction in their odds of experiencing regret.

Conclusions: Surrogate decision-makers of decedents are more likely to experience regret. These odds decrease as the surrogate's tendency to use cognitive reappraisal increases. Reappraisal-based interventions could improve psychological outcomes for surrogate decision-makers, highlighting a novel opportunity for targeted support in critical care settings.

Trial registration: ClinicalTrials.gov NCT03099746.

Keywords: bias; decision making; emotional regulation; emotions; intensive care units.

Publication types

  • Randomized Controlled Trial
  • Research Support, N.I.H., Extramural

MeSH terms

  • Adult
  • Aged
  • Decision Making*
  • Emotions*
  • Female
  • Humans
  • Intensive Care Units / organization & administration
  • Intensive Care Units / statistics & numerical data
  • Male
  • Middle Aged

Associated data

  • ClinicalTrials.gov/NCT03099746