In an effort to understand the effect of cancer diagnosis and treatment in children and adolescents, and to identify issues that should be addressed with newly diagnosed patients, 85 patients with Ewing's sarcoma family tumors (ESFT) were interviewed about their experience of having cancer. This represents 90% of all eligible patients who survived at least 3 years since their diagnosis and who were treated for ESFT at the National Cancer Institute (NCI) from 1965-1993. The mean age of patients at the time of diagnosis was 15.8 +/- 5.3 years, and mean time since diagnosis was 13.6 +/- 6.4 years. Patients from this cohort had a disease usually related to poor outcome. Patients answered five open-ended written questions. Negative experiences that they described included transient and permanent discomfort and disabilities related to cancer; disruption of life or relationships; and emotional aspects of cancer diagnosis or treatment. Positive aspects of having cancer included changed attitudes about self and life, improved relationships with others, or better job performance. Advice for newly diagnosed patients most often dealt with the emotional aspects of cancer. The importance of patient-to-patient support was frequently described. Overall, having cancer was not an entirely negative experience, and it may result in introspection and improved relationships with others.