China's family planning policy prioritizes the state and has historically silenced the voices of women in their own reproductive discourse. Unwed single Chinese mothers are in particular penalized and remain invisible in the national reproductive health discourse that promotes childbirth only within the institution of marriage. Drawing on Giddens' theoretical framework of structure-agency, thirty in-depth interviews were conducted to understand the lived experiences of Chinese unwed single mothers. Specifically, this study explored the ways in which structural violence is communicatively enacted in the interactions within institutions such as police station, family planning office and health care system; and interpersonal relationships such as family and neighbors that silence the voices of the unwed single mothers. Further the study also explored the ways in which the women enact their agency to navigate these macro and micro level constrains and limitations. The findings revealed that the women's experience of structural violence is often a manifestation of the state-controlled sexuality discourse in the social institutions and interpersonal relationships, and highlighted the women's agency enactment through employing various communicative behaviors to manage these day-to-day struggles.